4 Reasons Why I'm Single

I'm always getting asked the question "So why are you single?" Like at 22 years old, I'm supposed to be tied down to one person. It's like the Women's Movement didn't even happen! So many girls I know are finding ways to trap themselves. Either they're getting married to complete strangers or they're getting pregnant to "save" a relationship. And these are GIRLS I'm talking about. Not middle-aged women. In fact, the roles have reversed. I'm finding more young girls talking about settling down and more older women expressing their freedom. But to answer the question as to why I'm single, we would have to break it down.

1. There are no guys that I have met that are mental capable of being in a relationship. Most people in their 20s don't even know what a relationship is! They are just putting labels on sex. They go on dates and barely interact with each other. The most they communicate is through argument. No one seems to take the time to get to know each other anymore

2. I'm not into labels and rules. If I have a connection with someone, I don't think it automatically means you get to pull out a rulebook. Love has no rules. Love isn't fair. If you love someone with all your heart, it doesn't mean anything. It has to be a two way street.

3. Sex makes you loose focus. Nuff said.

4. Everywhere I turn, there's a hotter guy. I don't want to commit to one person right now. This is my selfish phase!

But I must say, I'm a sucka for love. So if cupid hits, I must hit back! But I don't feel pressure anymore. Society used to make us single gals feel like shit. But now, it's whatever. I just wish all my friends didn't feel the need to settle for less. Just because thats the only offer doesnt mean you have to take it.

I have a friend who is engaged to a guy she barely knows because she's afraid she won't get another offer! That has to be the saddest thing I ever heard! We actually have a choice, and you're still settling? And you're only 23?! I wish girls loved themselves more. Then we could really run this town.